What is LOVE and Where it is???

I started to realize, when a guy is so not into you, he will stop all the actions. As a gal, we should always alert when they start those action. It is to prevent ourselves not to fall in the same trap again.

There was a case i heard from a friend of mine. It makes me feel shock as in guy can be so pathetic and tactful when they want something more than pure relationship.

Before getting together with the gal, the guy Mr D would always do something touching to make sure he manage to grab the gal heart. Besides, he had make a lot of promises just to reassure the gal that he is seriously in love with her. The gal feel touch, trust everything and vowed to spend the rest of her life with this lovely guy.

However, when he manage to grab the gal's heart, he will try to ask for more in order to continue the relationship. He said this is the way he express his love and want the gal to trust him. He even propose to her and plan for their future. Perhaps this is so called the love promise and the gal choose to believe.

There are so much of issues they need to face it together. Before this, the guy told the gal no matter how the situation is she should not let go and he will always be there for her. But, he just break his promise. Finally, He choose to let go because he cant take it anymore. This is the excuse he tell the gal. The gal was very sad but agreed to break up at last.

After some period of time, they meet again. But, the gal find out the guy is no longer the one she knew before. He likes to insult her or say something rude when they meet up. The guy even requested the gal to become his sex partner and something more than that. This is how he sound like, looks like i m still have feeling on you, can we have sex together?(sound like he has a good heart by offer his sperm away??) I'll promise this love making is going to be very sweet and i'll be gentle to you since this is your first time. If you want a baby, i can give you one. (wow, sound like he is sort of God???) Just tell me where and when. I want it as a long term thing and we can meet once per month. What a hurtful words! The gal feel upset as in the guy is not sincere start from the beginning. All he wants is just SEX SEX and SEX!

what a ridiculous request?!!! Just wonder is this guy seriously in love with the gal or it is just a tactic for the guy to trap down the gal?? Feel kind of disappointed as in love could be so fragile and not sincere at all. People can even use tactics and pretend they are seriously in love. What is LOVE and Where is it???